Episode 20

Social Media Stalking Before Dates… Normal or Red Flag?

Published on: 19th May, 2026

Should you dig into someone’s digital past before the first date, or is it an automatic red flag?

This week, Big Party and Molly go everywhere in the best way possible—from workplace disasters and the ethics of online detective work, to the reality TV rabbit holes keeping them up at night.

In this episode, we break down:

• The Best of the "Worst Employee of the Month" stories.

• Social Media Stalking: Is it smart dating prep or a toxic habit?

• The Dirty Soda Trend & latest internet food obsessions.

• Reality TV, nostalgia-driven reboots, and astrology personalities.

• Why the social media algorithms might know us better than we know ourselves.

If you’ve ever deep-stalked a date online, judged someone purely by their Instagram grid, or had to work with THAT coworker… this one is for you.

💬 What’s your take? Is pre-date stalking normal or a red flag? Drop your thoughts on our website or reply in the Spotify Q&A!

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The After Party with Big Party and Molly, New Episodes on Tues, Unfiltered on Thurs.
The After Party with Big Party and Molly is the unfiltered side of the conversation — extra stories, behind-the-scenes moments, relationship talk, weird life experiences, listener questions, pop culture reactions, food reviews, dating disasters, workplace stories, paranormal conversations, tarot readings, and the random topics that spiral after the microphones should’ve been turned off.

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